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To fix a dress that is tight in the shoulder and arm area, here are several approaches, ranging from simple to more complex:

1. Check Seam Allowances:

   • Method: Carefully turn the dress inside out and inspect the seams around the armhole and the side seams of the bodice (especially under the armpit). Sometimes, there's extra fabric (seam allowance) that can be let out to provide a bit more room.
   • How-to: Use a seam ripper to carefully open a small section of the seam to see how much fabric is available. If there's enough (usually at least 1/4 inch or 0.5 cm), you can unpick the seam, press it open, and re-sew a new seam line closer to the original raw edge. This might give you just enough space.

2. Add Underarm Gussets:

   • Method: This is a common and very effective solution for tightness around the armpit/shoulder, as it adds room for movement without significantly altering the garment's main silhouette. A gusset is a small, often diamond-shaped or triangular piece of fabric inserted into the underarm area.
   • How-to: This is a more advanced sewing technique. You would typically unpick the underarm seam of the sleeve and the corresponding side seam of the bodice. You'll need matching or coordinating fabric for the gusset. The gusset provides extra stretch and mobility.

3. Insert a Panel:

   • Method: If the tightness extends along the side seam of the bodice, you could insert a narrow panel of matching or contrasting fabric along the entire side seam, from the armhole down to the waist or hip.
   • How-to: Carefully unpick the side seams. Cut two long, narrow strips of fabric (the width depending on how much extra room you need, plus seam allowances). Sew these panels into the opened side seams.

4. Modify the Sleeves Directly:

   • Slash and Spread (for woven sleeves): If the tightness is primarily in the sleeve's bicep area and the fabric is woven (no stretch), you can carefully cut one or more vertical lines up the sleeve, from the cuff towards the armhole (stopping just before reaching the armhole seam). Then, insert strips of matching fabric into these gaps. This adds width to the sleeve itself.
   • Replace Sleeves: As a last resort, if the sleeves are the main issue and other methods won't work, you could remove them entirely and replace them with a different style (e.g., a wider, looser sleeve, a different fabric, or even turn the dress into a sleeveless design if appropriate).

5. Professional Alterations:

   • Recommendation: For more complex alterations like adding gussets, extensive seam letting-out, or sleeve replacement, it's highly recommended to take the dress to a professional tailor or seamstress. They have the expertise, tools, and experience to make these changes seamlessly without damaging the dress's integrity or appearance. They can also advise you on the best possible solution for your specific dress and body type.

Before you start any alterations, consider the fabric type (stretch vs. woven), the dress's value, and your own sewing skill level.